“BET: What About the Survivors?”

I have no love for Chris Brown.  And I can explain why but I think Rose Afriyie does a much better job than I ever could over at Feministing.  This is her take on Brown’s Michael Jackson tribute on the BET Awards this past weekend.

Here are choice quotes (the links are from the original post):

Blood on my walls. Cops at my doors. Large scars on my back from being pushed on the floor. These are the things I remember with great sadness when my memory is triggered by an old friend’s concern about my present well-being or the sighting of male aggressors of violence. These are the things that ran through my mind when the BET awards showcased Chris Brown, probably one of the most infamous batterers of our generation. And if Chris’s presence alone on a stage that drew 7 million viewers isn’t enough of a stab in the gut, Jermaine Jackson pressed the knife by claiming that it is Chris, in fact, who needs healing.
Ann Powers over at the LA Times also used language that disarmed me. Although Powers conceded that BET airing Chris Brown was problematic, she described Chris as someone who will “forever be in recovery.” It’s as if there has been a pandemic of amnesia and some among us have forgotten who the victim really is here. […]

Adding insult to injury were the stars and fans who have been caught on camera cheering on him, his performance and calling Sunday night’s performance a comeback. I can’t help but ask: what about us? What about the women who relive their experiences when a man is given a platform to imply that his pain is greater than the brutality he has inflicted on a woman’s body? What about Rihanna? Where is the tribute for survivors and what has BET done to change the scourge of violence in Black women’s lives?

I am thankful for the presence of male allies who have the courage to stand up and remind us that African-American women ages 15 to 34 die more from the violence of a current or former intimate partner than by anything else. Than By Anything Else. This makes BET’s decision to air Chris a profound act of traitor-ship against women and girls.

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